From France to England: the Floating Road Trip

After splashing around at the beach in Belgium, we drove all around the coast of France to different ferry operators looking for the best deal and the shortest wait. This is how we like to travel. As a result, our road trips are whimsical and serendipitous, not cemented into any one set course of action. As Akychame says, the absolute BEST trips happen on accident, just stumbling across one lucky surprise after another! 

The ferry has the feel of a luxury ship, with gourmet dining, massage services, duty-free shops, and great views. It was a lovely break after our 10-hour drive from Germany to Belgium to France! 

We usually take the "Chunnel" (Channel Tunnel) to England. To take the Chunnel, passengers drive onto a train and park their cars one after another. Although you can walk around or use the lavatory, it is basically an uneventful 35 minutes. Since you're in a tunnel under the sea, there is nothing to look at. There are no cafes, either, which is fine because it's such a short trip. The ferry, on the other hand, takes a few sprawling hours. It's wonderful. We took the Norfolk Line, which is a mere 45 EUR or so per car, as opposed to about 125 EUR for the Chunnel. 

Yay, wireless! Akychame's new tiny laptop was so convenient for the trip - we even booked our hostel reservation for Oxford, England while on the ferry. 

The best part of the ride was being greeted by the white cliffs of Dover at the other side. In the past five years we have taken an undersea train, flown in a small aircraft, and sailed in a ferry across the English Channel! Next we'll have to swim.  

Once out of the ferry and navigating our way north to Oxford, we passed street signs pointing us in such directions as "Nottingham" and Canterbury." We always feel, when we are in England, that we've entered a fictional literary landscape. It's magical.

Next stop, Oxford: the "City of Dreaming Spires." Sigh.

Beachcombing Belgium

On our way to catch the ferry in Calais, France, we visited a lovely stretch of beach in Belgium. It was a chilly, sunny day - sounds of seagulls, surf rolling itself at our feet again and again like a mantra. It was wonderful to walk on sand again, to sink into sand dunes, our bodies avalanching to the glossy glow of beach below. 

Hunting for empty razor clam shells -  they look like old Chinese men's fingernails stretching outward  from beneath the sand. Hours later we boarded the ferry with pocketfuls of them.

This is the North Sea, close to the English Channel. Across the water, England. Our new home.

Akychame and Daddy: reminds me of the "Footsteps" poem. 

We watched the barnacles poke out for meals, then hide in a wink.

Little miss celebrity in Hello Kitty bathrobe and "bling"-ful shades.

Windswept, barren loveliness everywhere. Everything buried and unburied by sand and sea.

Salvador Dali, Chocolate Body Parts, and a Farmers' Market in Brugges, Belgium

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Hanging out with my Sisters and my Niece!!!

I was soooooo psyched to see Jody, to hang out late at night and giggle and tell secrets. It's what I really go to Bennington College for. ; ) To think, I used to sneak into her bedroom in Burbank, California and steal her lunch money to go buy things at the neighbor's yard sale. But that was the same year I tried making glamorous high-heels by gluing Lincoln Logs to the bottom of my sneakers, so what did I know?

My sister Jody is so creative and clever and dynamic. Always in the midst of a new project that would easily overwhelm other people. Not to mention she's just funny and real and cool and one of my favorite people on earth to talk for hours and hours with. And one of the only people I can tell everything to. Everything! And that's a lot. Thank you, Jody.



Every time I see Kiva, she has grown into more of a hip, gorgeous, self-confident young lady, and what a dancer! She reminds me of Chelsea with her smart, self-assured attitude and her hip-hop moves. Every time we get together I try out some of her moves - oh god - if you're over 30 and you ever want proof that you're hopelessly uncool, despite vague memories of once having been the shiznit, just try keeping up with your younger sister on the dance floor.
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I love that my Dad always gets our names confused, even though I've lived on different continents for over a decade now. It's an amazing compliment because it means that I'm always on my Dad's mind, and also it means that he sees a little bit of me in her fiery, goddess-like temperament. I like that!

Speaking of being confused with other people in the family, I also love it (and have always loved it) that Jody used to get Chelsea's name and my name mixed up. I'm sure it came naturally, since I'm younger than Jody, so she was often in an authoritative role with me - and Chelsea was the only other person that fit that role. So it makes sense that she would switch our names. But I also like to think that Chelsea, in some way, reminds her of me, and vice-versa. Chelsea, oh my goodness, I love you. And the mama you came from.

Our Lovely Paris Vacation: A Poetry Reading, Burning at the Notre Dame Cathedral, and a Midnight Picnic on the Left Bank

There are pigeons and love-birds all around Paris' famous Notre Dame Cathedral. Oh, look, here's a couple of love-birds snuggling in front of the wood and calligraphic metal door of the cathedral. Can you hear them cooing? Can you hear the mighty organ reverberating ecstatically through the stone walls of the gothic cathedral?

Inside, the cathedral is glowing with candles and faces turned to god, burning passionately. Everything rises. Far above us, in the pocket of heaven tucked into the angles of the cathedral ceiling, our prayers took wing in the dark warm spaces. A little bit of this hallowed atmosphere entered our lungs, then released itself back into the respiratory system of the cathedral, each of our bodies a minute bronchi in the breathing in and out of this great stone spirit.

This was a brilliant day and night! Oh man, it's the stuff of dreams! We spent time at the legendary Shakespeare and Company English-language bookstore, where we saw a poetry reading and where the kiddos curled up on an old couch with the resident puppy. Then, just literally a hop, skip, and a jump across the river and voila! We were at the Notre Dame cathedral!

We visited the cathedral in 2005 too, but it was closed...so we hung out with backpackers, tourists, and all sorts of colorful characters late into the night watching street artists and fire jugglers. This time, though, oh man...not only was the cathedral open, but there was a midnight mass in progress (serendipity - my true religion!!!) when we entered, replete with organs and the sound of many voices raised like wine to god. After this heady experience, we had a scrumptious picnic while watching a street performer juggle and blow fire. Every time I look at this picture (above), it evokes these memories.

On a sophomoric note: in this picture (above) Phil's backpack looks like a futuristic jet pack, the twin "jets" of the French bread about to propel them across the Seine. It cracks me up!


With full hearts and souls and bellies we strolled around the Left Bank as long as we could before collapsing. It's a sacrilege to waste time sleeping in the city of lights...so we traded a bit of sleep for a bit of Paris that we'll have in our memories forever. A dream for a dream.

Lvov and Mommy's Favorite Memory of Paris

Lvov and I sitting on the edge of a little dock-island in the middle of the Seine, our feet dangling over the river at midnight, a bottle of French wine after a poetry reading...chilly noses and cuddles...Eiffel tower in the distance and drunkards and lovers stumbling about on both sides of the river...Lvov and I hung our feet over the edge and sang like a couple of happy drunks while Akychame and Phil walked around filming and taking pictures. It was amazing to see everything lit up with white light, and to watch the dinner and party boats cruise slowly past us, waving. We were in the heart of our lives, in the heart of the Seine in the heart of Paris.

Lvov says:

Sitting with Mommy on a skinny island by Pont Neuf bridge was my favorite time in Paris because it was with my mommy and we had a perfect view of the Eiffel tower with the white lights going off on it. Last time we were in Paris last year, we looked down from the Eiffel Tower and on the grass below somebody had carved a huge heart into the grass. Probably for their boyfriend or girlfriend to see when they looked down from the tower. Mommy and I were cuddling and we could see and hear little waves in the water and other people were scared of sitting so close to the water, but mommy held me so tightly. It was really nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My 35th Birthday in Strasbourg, France

I just turned 35! This is going to be the best year of my life. I can feel it. I could feel it the night of my birthday, cathedral bells singing and ringing through the cobblestones and vibrating through the soles of my feet. Like water, the music rose through me to my tiptop branches and leaves. I was nourished.

My Dad reminded me that bodies completely regenerate themselves on a cellular level every seven years . . . by this logic, not one cell in my body is the same as when I was 28. A re-in-carn-ation of sorts. "Carn" meaning flesh; becoming flesh again. Old cycles , tendencies, habits have fallen from me like dust. This body has reinvented itself five times, blooming and blooming from my soul's stalk. I am so thankful to become 35 with my lovely (loving) family at my side celebrating me and my life.


Here's my first sweet baby and me kickin' it at the hotel after I sampled my TWO homemade birthday cakes (both girls insisted on making me their very own cake). I emailed Aunt Cindi saying that both my heart and my waistline expanded exponentially that night...


The Lvov of Love:



The best thing I ever did in this world was make these two little humans!!! And speaking of making things, check out the gifts they gave me...



Akychame spent hours and hours hand-sewing me a pillow with a heart embroidered on it and another tiny heart hanging from the corner of the pillow by a ribbon. I called them "you & me" hearts. It reminds me of the saying, "having kids means to forever have your heart running around outside of your body" (or something like that)...the pillow is me, and Akychame is the heart attached to me by a fine length of ribbon, running around outside of my body.

Lvov wrote me ten love notes, some with poems on them, some with drawings...some just telling me all of the little tiny things that I do that she loves...one has a drawing of us holding hands. Above my head she wrote, "the Queen of Love" and above her head she wrote, "the Lvov of Love." And one note had I love you written over and over again in every conceivable inch. The greatest part is, she wrote exactly 35 I love you's for my 35th year, but she didn't do it on purpose. It was a total coincidence!



My birthday cakes were only alive for two days, but they were very well-traveled. Because the girls wanted me to have birthday cakes ON my birthday, and because they wanted the cakes to be homemade & not bought at a patissier, the cakes ended up traveling in the back of our car from Germany to France, then being carried by Phil & the kiddos from a deep-throated car garage through downtown Strasbourg in the middle of the night past street performers and throngs of tourists; and lastly, up, up, up to our little hotel room and onto the cozy bed; and then, of course, into my mouth, which to the cakes must have seemed an awful lot like descending into the car garage again.

Here's a typical little street in Strasbourg near our hotel. Notice the patissier (below) that we completely ignored because we already had the most delicious cake in the world.



Here's our charming hotel by the Strasbourg cathedral:



The hotel literally buzzed when the bells sang out. They would chime for five minutes every hour high above the heads of puppeteers, acrobats, devils, and fire-jugglers performing below for the "Street Artist Weekend," a gala feast of the senses sponsored by the city.


This is the view from our hotel room. We could feel the energy & excitement of the city through our open windows. Below, people dined at midnight under crimson umbrellas, sports teams sang songs to rival the bells, drunken lovers stumbled by, and here and there a person would saunter slowly by on stilts on the way to a performance. If you crane your neck to the left and lean out of our hotel window a little, your eyes will follow the bells to their source. The magnificent singing cathedral. You have to enlarge this photo and imagine that the ground is vibrating and the air buzzing with a call to prayer.


Little did we know when we pulled into Strasbourg on a total whim (the way we do most of our traveling) that the city would be teeming and burning with the Street Artist's Festival. It was sheer luck and serendipity. If I have a belief system, a spirituality or superstition, it hinges on serendipity. It's the knuckle, the joint upon which everything poetic revolves.

Here's a picture from my favorite street performance - pungent gasoline and rocking bagpipes lit the night on fire (you might want to click on the photo to enlarge):


Even the puppets were playing with fire that night. I couldn't have wanted a more spectacular birthday if I were a queen. It's as if every performer in the city outdid themselves just to entertain me.


Everywhere I turn, I see fire. I seek its warmth and destruction, the smoldering of old modes and skins. It will light the way for me, burning a path warm and smoky. This is going to be the best year of my life.